Looking for wedding hacks to save money without sacrificing your dream day? We dug into Reddit’s r/weddingplanning community to uncover real advice that actually works.
These aren’t your typical Pinterest tips—these are real, tested ideas from people who’ve been through it. If you’re planning a wedding on a budget (or just don’t want to blow it all in one day), this list is for you.
Reddit’s Best Wedding Hacks to Save Money
1. Skip the “Per-Person” Trap
Instead of traditional caterers charging per guest, look into hiring a local restaurant or food truck. One Redditor hired their favorite Mediterranean place to cater buffet-style for way less than wedding caterers quoted.
2. Choose a Non-Traditional Venue
Backyards, breweries, community halls, or even Airbnb properties (with host permission!) came up again and again. These spots often cost a fraction of traditional wedding venues—and they come with character.
3. Do a Morning or Weekday Wedding
One user had a brunch wedding on a Friday morning, complete with mimosas and waffles. The venue charged half the normal rate. Bonus: You get to nap afterward.
4. DIY What Matters (But Know Your Limits)
DIY decor, centerpieces, signs, or even desserts (hello, Costco sheet cake!) can save major cash. But don’t go overboard—you don’t want to spend the night before your wedding glue-gunning fake flowers.
5. Borrow, Don’t Buy
From table runners to card boxes, a lot of things you need for one day can be borrowed from friends, family, or local wedding groups. One bride got all her décor from a Facebook wedding resale group.
6. Buy Secondhand
Redditors love secondhand wedding groups and apps like Poshmark or StillWhite for dresses, veils, and accessories. One person got a designer gown for under $300.
7. Use Digital RSVPs and Invites
Skip the paper, postage, and printer headaches. Many couples are going all-digital with wedding websites, online RSVPs, or platforms like Greenvelope. It’s easy, modern, and budget-friendly.
8. Keep the Guest List Tight
It might sound harsh, but several users said trimming the guest list was the single biggest money-saver. Less people = less food, drinks, rentals, and stress.
9. Hire a Photographer for Fewer Hours
If you’re not planning to do a big send-off, consider just booking your photographer for 4–6 hours instead of a full day. One couple even skipped getting-ready shots to save cash.
10. Go for Fake Flowers (or Skip Them)
Many Redditors swear by realistic faux flowers from Hobby Lobby, Michael’s, or Amazon. Others skipped floral centerpieces entirely and used candles or greenery instead.
11. Have a Friend Officiate
It’s easy (and free!) to get ordained online. If you have a friend who’s great at public speaking, this one’s a win-win.
12. Don’t Mention the “W” Word
Vendors often charge more when they hear the word “wedding.” Try calling it a “family celebration” or “private party” when getting initial quotes—then decide who’s worth the markup.
13. Keep It Simple
You don’t need a choreographed first dance, customized favors, or a live band. The more “extras” you skip, the more budget you free up for the things that matter most to you.
14. Be Strategic With Your Decor
Many Reddit users recommend focusing on just a few “wow” areas—like the entrance, sweetheart table, or photo booth—rather than decorating everything. It creates visual impact without draining your wallet.
15. Remember: No One Notices the Stuff You Stress About
A bride in the thread admitted she agonized over napkin colors. After the wedding, she realized no one noticed. Spend your energy (and money) on moments—not minutiae.
🎨 Bonus Tip: Create an Experience They’ll Talk About—Without Blowing the Budget
If you’re looking for a high-impact, low-stress way to entertain guests, consider hiring Airbrush Events. We create personalized party favors live at your wedding—think hats, shirts, tote bags, even custom perfume bottles. It’s fun, interactive, and something your guests will actually use and remember. No extra fluff needed. Learn more about us.
Planning a wedding doesn’t have to drain your bank account. With a little creativity and a willingness to break from tradition, you can pull off a day that’s personal, fun, and affordable. Whether you use one or all of these wedding hacks to save money, remember—what matters most is that the day feels like you. The rest is just extra.